MORE : The 24 emotional stages of faking an orgasm Orgasms will not happen every time, because women are not machines with an orgasm button you can push every time. Us not having an orgasm doesn’t mean the sex was bad or that you’ve failed Be a love and offer us something to clean it up with, yeah? 9. Seems obvious, but some men appear to think that this only happens if a vagina is ‘loose’. If you condom-free sex, your cum will leak out of her vagina It’s just air that’s been trapped during all the in-and-out action.Ĩ. But then continue with the amazing sex you’re having. Queefs/fanny farts happenĭon’t make dumb jokes about them. It doesn’t make sense, it’s offensive, and you need to get over being squeamish about a natural bodily function. You can’t claim to be massively turned on my women’s bodies if you find them absolutely revolting for one week every month. If you think that women on their periods are ‘gross’ or ‘unsexual’, you have a serious problem with women’s bodiesįor and Against: The big period sex debate It feels good and it means we’re more likely to have an orgasm. So do it, in a non-rushed, actually enjoying it way. I don’t particularly like the term ‘foreplay’ because I think all the buildup should just be considered as ‘sex’, so you know that you can’t do the penetration bit without all the touching, kissing, and oral stuff.īut foreplay is the word we have.
And on that note: Spending more time on foreplay will never be a bad idea And if she’s not wet and extremely eager, you’ll need to do some actual buildup. Just because you’re ready to go doesn’t mean your partner is. Yes, this one goes out to the absolute knob of an ex-boyfriend who made up a song to make fun of another woman’s ‘flaps’. Vaginas come in all shapes and sizesĪnd being rude about how a particular vagina looks just makes it seem like you haven’t seen many. If she hasn’t sincerely said those words, she’ll probably think you’re being rude. Unless they’ve expressly said that it’s a massive turn-on when you do it.Ģ3 parts of dating that are the worst for people with anxietyĪnd I do mean expressly, in the exact words ‘I absolutely love it when you shove my head down to urge me to give you head’. Stop shoving women’s heads down when you want a blow job Stop with the fear, try something if it appeals to you, and stop freaking out if a girl lightly touches that area and you think you might like it. So if you’re only attracted to women and only want to have sex with women, but your anal area enjoys touching, licking, or penetration, it doesn’t seem like you’re gay. In fact, no body part has a sexual orientation. Because a bumhole cannot have a sexual orientation.